Tough Choices

Life is full of tough choices...

You know. Really important choices. Do I want to eat chocolate ice cream or brownies for dessert? Do I want to wear blue jeans or capris? Do I want to read a romance or a non-fiction book about sex?

But the toughest choice is deciding who I want to date (or make love to) more. I honestly can't decide as both men in these pairs are so handsome, so sexy, so appealing I can't make up my mind.

You tell me who you prefer in each case, or if like me, you can't make up your mind. (Isn't that why menages were born?)

Eddie Wilson (Michael Pare)/Frank Ridgeway (Tom Berrenger) - "Eddie and the Cruisers". Both the film and the soundtrack are terrific. "Tender Years" has to be one of the most romantic, soulful songs ever sang. I've worn out three copies of this soundtrack since the 80's. I still can't get enough of it.

Will Turner (Orlando Bloom)/Captain Jack Sparrow (Johnny Depp) - Pirates of the Caribbean. I think Will's my favorite but then Johnny does something really cute and I'm back to being undecided.

Capt. Rafe McCawley (Ben Affleck)/ Capt. Danny Walker (Josh Hartnett) - Pearl Harbor. Yum.

Jack Trainer (Harrison Ford)/Mick Dugan (Alec Baldwin) - Working Girl.

You'll also want to see what Amarinda Jones, Anika Hamilton, Anny Cook, Barbara Huffert, Brynn Paulin, Bronwyn Green, Dakota Rebel, Kelly Kirch, Molly Daniels, Sandra Cox, Regina Carlysle, and Cindy Spencer Pape are up to, so make sure to visit them also. :)

What I Want In A Man...

What I Want In a Man� As Years Go By.... Original List : 1. Handsome 2. Charming 3. Financially successful 4. A caring listener 5. Witty 6. In good shape 7. Dresses with style 8. Appreciates finer things 9. Full of thoughtful surprises 10. An imaginative, romantic lover What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 32) 1. Nice looking 2. Opens car doors, holds chairs 3. Has enough money for a nice dinner 4. Listens more than talks 5. Laughs at my jokes 6. Carries bags of groceries with ease 7. Owns at least one tie 8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal 9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries 10. Seeks romance at least once a week What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 52) 1. Not too ugly 2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car 3. Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally 4. Nods head when I'm talking 5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes 6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture 7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach 8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids 9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down 10. Shaves most weekends What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 62) 1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed 2. Doesn't belch or scratch in public 3. Doesn't borrow money too often 4. Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting 5. Doesn't re-tell the same joke too many times 6. Is in good enough shape to get off couch on weekends 7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear 8. Appreciates a good TV di nner 9. Remembers your name on occasion 10. Shaves some weekends What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 72) 1. Doesn't scare small children 2. Remembers where bathroom is 3. Doesn't require much money for upkeep 4. Only snores lightly when asleep 5. Remembers why he's laughing 6. Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself 7. Usually wears some clothes 8. Likes soft foods 9. Remembers where he left his teeth 10. Remembers that it's the weekend What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 82) 1. Breathing. 2. Doesn't miss the toilet... And men wonder why women dream of romantic heroes??? You'll also want to see what Amarinda Jones, Anika Hamilton, Anny Cook, Barbara Huffert, Brynn Paulin, Bronwyn Green, Dakota Rebel, Kelly Kirch, Molly Daniels, Sandra Cox, Regina Carlysle, and Cindy Spencer Pape are up to, so make sure to visit them also. :)