I spend a LOT of time at my daughter's softball games so here are thirteen things I learned from softball. 1) The team star usually isn't the prettiest player. 2) If you want to be a good pitcher, batter, or player, you have to practice a lot. 3) Teams that work together win a lot of games. Teams that don't work together, usually lose. 4) You need the right equipment to play the game well. 5) You have to get dirty to have fun. 6) If you don't wear protection, you'll get burned. 7) You have to watch the ball to be able to catch it. 8) If you turn your back on a ball in play, you're liable to get hurt. 9) Watch out for curve balls. 10) If you strike out, it's not the end of the world. 11) You can lose a game and still win the series. 12) Strategy helps. A lot. 13) A good coach is priceless. You'll also want to see what Amarinda Jones, Anika Hamilton, Anny Cook, Barbara Huffert, Brynn Paulin, Bronwyn Green, Dakota Rebel, Kelly Kirch, Molly Daniels, Sandra Cox, Regina Carlysle, and Cindy Spencer Pape are up to, so make sure to visit them also. :)
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Thursday, January 29, 2009
Thursday Thirteen: version 30 (I think) 13 Things I Dread And Like About Employee Reviews
This week my company is conducting quarterly employee reviews. It's new to us. Until now, we've only held annual reviews. The bigwigs decided that's too far apart not to give feedback. As a manager, I both dread and like this idea. As an employee being reviewed, I mainly dread it. I'm probably funny. I used to enjoy taking tests and being graded. But then I usually earned high grades. But employee reviews is tougher to get an A equivalent on, for me anyway. I've busted my butt, gone way beyond my comfort zone, and still not always received great reviews. Same for book reviews. Anyway, since this is relevant in my life right now here are 13 things I like or hate about employee reviews. 1) I find out what my boss thinks about me. 2) Employees who like the reviews I give of them will like me a lot. At least they won't be mad at me. 3) Employees who hate the reviews I give of them will hate me. At least they'll be mad at me. 4) Concerned employees will try to step up their work. 5) Concerned employees will work on improving their attitude. 6) I'll be arrested for murder. 7) I'll be murdered before they can arrest me. 8) I'll be fired, if I'm not murdered, whether or not I'm arrested. 9) I'll get a demotion and pay lowered, even if I'm not fired or murdered or arrested. 10) I'll get promoted and/or a pay raise because they love me so much. 11) I'll get them over and done with for 3 more months. 12) I'll have an excuse to eat lots of chocolate and soak in a bubble bath. 13) I'll pass another milestone in really becoming a manager (this will be the first review I give to other people). I gotta run and get my hair cut so I look good for my review so I don't get marked down on professional appearance. You'll also want to see what Amarinda Jones, Anika Hamilton, Anny Cook, Barbara Huffert, Brynn Paulin, Bronwyn Green, Dakota Rebel, Kelly Kirch, Molly Daniels, Sandra Cox, Regina Carlysle, and Cindy Spencer Pape are up to, so make sure to visit them also. :)
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Thursday Thirteen edition 30
December is my craziest month at the day job. I've been working overtime every night this week so please forgive me for being awol yesterday and having a short post today. My Thursday Thirteen this week are 13 holiday movies, starting with my favorite and working my way down. 1. White Christmas - with Bing Crosby, Danny Kaye, Rosemary Clooney (my favorite) 2. While You Were Sleeping (not strictly a holiday movie, but it features Christmas and New Year's Eve) - with Sandra Bullock and Bill Pullman 3. Meet Me In St. Louis - with Judy Garland 4. Home Alone 3 5. Home Alone 1 6. Holiday Inn 7. Miracle On 34th Street 8. Scrooched 9. The Santa Claus 10. Santa Claus 2 11. It's A Wonderful Life 12. Rudolph The Rednose Reindeer 13. How The Grinch Stole Christmas Do you have any favorites I haven't listed here?
Thursday, December 04, 2008
Thursday Thirteen: edition 29 - Things I Want For Christmas This Year
Here are Thirteen Things I want for Christmas this year: 1) An Ipod!!! 2) A new lap top 3) A new MP3 player 4) Ace Young's CD 5) David Archuletta's CD 6) A new watch 7) Earrings - especially big hoops 8) New dress shoes for work 9) New purse (mine really is about shot) 10) An electric blanket (I'd love one right now to make me toasty - my toes are chilly!) 11) A new bicycle (mine was stolen two Christmas's ago) :( 12) New roller blades - I swear I'll really use them this time (really) 13) And for at least one whimsical wish...A magic carpet to fly me wherever, whenever, I want to go. What do you want for Christmas this year? Don't forget..."Naughty Boys", my M/M Christmas story is available at: http://www.total-e-bound.com And on December 15th, my second Christmas story "Christmas Miracles" will also be released at: http://www.total-e-bound.com
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Thursday, November 27, 2008
Thursday Thirteen: edition 28 - 13 things for which I'm thankful
Happy Thanksgiving one and all!
Here is what I'm thankful for:
1. All of you, my friends and readers, here in blogger land
4. My publishers, editors, cover artists, proof readers
6. My cats and dogs (part of my family)
7. The United States (my country)
9. My employer and co-workers (day job)
11. Jesus, Heavenly Father, and my salvation
12. The nourishing, tasty food we'll eat today (and every day)
Bonus: I'm also thankful that "Naughty Boys", my M/M Christmas story is published and available at: http://www.total-e-bound.com
You'll also want to see what Amarinda Jones, Anika Hamilton, Anny Cook, Barbara Huffert, Brynn Paulin, Bronwyn Green, Dakota Rebel, Kelly Kirch, Molly Daniels, Sandra Cox, Regina Carlysle, and Cindy Spencer Pape are up to, so make sure to visit them also. :)Thursday, November 20, 2008
Thursday Thirteen: Edition 27 - Thanksgiving recipes
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12.... Slow-Cooked Garlic Mashed Potatoes
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13.... Easy Apple Pie from Pillsbury.com
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Thursday, November 13, 2008
Thursday Thirteen edition 26: Superman Trivia
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1.... Superman's full Earth name is Clark Joseph Kent.
2....... The Jonathon, Martha, and Clark Kent lived on a ten acre farm in Smallville. She inherited it from her first husband, who had passed away.
3....... Clark Kent's favorite meal is Beef Bourguignon (with ketchup)
4....... On the black and white Superman TV show, the Superman costume was actually brown!
5....... Clark Kent met mermaid Lori Lemaris while a senior at Metropolis University. It's a long story, by the fell in love and almost got married!
6....... When Superman started out in the comics, he could only leap, not fly. (about 1/8 mile)
7....... Unless stated otherwise, Superman is always 29 years old in any given story.
8....... Clark and Superman part their hair parted on opposite sides, but the big difference is the forehead lock Superman has.
9....... Gold Kryptonite would take away Superman's powers forever, if he was exposed to it.
10..... White Kryptonite kills any type of plant life.
11..... The initials L. L. feature very prominently in Superman's life. Lana Lang was his boyhood girlfriend, Lois Lane is the love of his life, Lyla Lerrol was a super-hottie Kryptonian that he almost married, and of course, Lex Luthor is his worst enemy.
12...... Lois and Clark's first apartment's address is: Hyperion avenue. They got the place because Bruce Wayne owns it, and as a wedding present, he put Lois and Clark at the top of the tenants list, ensuring they got the home of their dreams.
13.... Robert Redford was offered the part of Superman in the 1978 movie version before Christopher Reeves took it.
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Thursday, November 06, 2008
Thursday Thirteen: edition 25 - 13 reasons I love November
Thirteen reasons I love November: 1. I'm a November baby and a Scorpio 2. Thanksgiving 3. Autumn leaves 4. Pumpkin pie 5. Cooler weather 6. Day after Thanksgiving Christmas sales 7. birthday parties 8. birthday cake 9. birthday presents 10. My next book "Naughty Boys" releases November 15, 2008 11. Thanksgiving Day Parades 12. The whole family gathers for Thanksgiving and my birthday 13. 4 day weekend from the day job!!!! You'll also want to see what Amarinda Jones, Anika Hamilton, Anny Cook, Barbara Huffert, Brynn Paulin, Bronwyn Green, Dakota Rebel, Kelly Kirch, Molly Daniels, Sandra Cox, Regina Carlysle, and Cindy Spencer Pape are up to, so make sure to visit them also. :)
Thursday, October 30, 2008
Thursday Thirteen: edition 25 - great dog Halloween costumes
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Thursday, October 02, 2008
Thursday Thirteen: edition 24- 13 ways to stay healthy
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Brush your teeth twice a day.
Do all these things and you will be a happier, healthier person!
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Thursday, September 25, 2008
Thursday Thirteen: edition 23 - Sexercises
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1.... PELVIC LIFT TO FIRM UP BUTTOCKS
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Thursday, September 18, 2008
Thursday Thirteen: edition 22 - 13 words that start with "E"
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1.... Elephant
2.... Eggnog
3.... Eggplant
4.... Eggs
5.... Eyes
6.... Ears
7.... electric
8.... email
9.... encyclopedia
10... education
11... eagle
12... Earth
13... Ebooks
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Thursday, September 11, 2008
Thursday Thirteen: edition 21 - 13 things hurricanes do to make life miserable
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1.... Tears down your house and/or employer! (so maybe
no job!)
2.... Threatens your life
3.... Floods your neighborhood
4.... Brings tornadoes
5.... Rips up all the trees in your yard and maybe
on your entire street
6.... Moves your roof to the street in front of your
house
7.... Leaves you in the dark - for weeks or months
8.... Makes you wait in lots of LONG lines - for gas,
food, and ice
9.... Makes you hot and sticky and stinky
10... Brings you closer to your neighbors (maybe the
only plus - because you're all outside without TV or
computers and because it's too hot to stay inside)
11... Closes the local parks for months or a year or
more (the parks are last priority to clean up)
12... Brings out lots of mosquitoes (because of all
the standing water). Sometimes snakes, too.
13... Perhaps floods your house
* puts you out of touch with the rest of the world
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Thursday, September 04, 2008
Thursday Thirteen - edition 20: 13 things I had in the 1960s as a little girl
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Okay, I'm freaking out. Well, sorta kinda. The news just now said Hurricane Ike is predicted to be a cat 4 when it gets to Florida and my part of Florida is dead center in the cone of probability. Cat 2's and under don't phaze me a whole lot. Hey, we get a day or two off work and a little rain. Cat 3's concern me more, but not enough to tremble and run and hide except inside my house.
But a cat 4... (our TV news shows a 4 before it reaches Florida.)
Whoa!
I can't afford to leave work early and fly home to Ohio, and I'd be scared to get caught in a car on the Florida peninsula as the storm could follow us up. But we may very well squeeze into a hurricane shelter. We did for Mitch years ago and it was miserable, but still better to be safe. Those places are hot and noisy and hard on the back. There's no privacy and people trip over you. People snore loud, and if the AC goes out, it's sweltering. But they still feel safer than being in my house which seems pretty flimsy.
The kids ate the hurricane food (they were told to save it just in case - after Fay) and I don't get paid again for over a week. The only things they didn't get into is the water.
Have you ever been in a cat 3 or 4 hurricane? If so, I don't need to go on.
If not,a 3 wreaks havoc on the whole area by ripping up trees and throwing them around. It rips up a lot of roofs. It takes out most of the traffic signs and lights and drops the trees and live wires and roofs in the middle of the roads so that it's almost impossible to get around. It takes out electricity for days, even weeks. It makes it very difficult to get gas and food for days and even weeks. Every one is stinky, sweaty, dirty, and miserable. Any food in the freezer has to be grilled or goes bad. There's usually a curfew at dusk for the first month or so.
But most buildings survive, although several have some minor to moderate damage. Life gets semi-back to normal in 1-3 months.
But a cat 4... I've only been on the verge of one - Andrew in '92. It hit Miami and Homestead straight on. I was in the south part of Ft. Lauderdale so I was pretty close. But our area was more of a cat 2-3. But my friends down in Miami were traumatized. They thought the winds were going to suck them up into the sky. Their houses were shaking and being torn apart. They felt sure they were going to die.
After the storm itself subsided, they were almost as scared as people were shooting guns and looting. Many, maybe even most of the buildings, were irreparably damaged or just leveled. Hardly any trees survived.
Their area was torn up for at least a year, more like two or three years. Many people were left homeless. Many had to live in tent cities. Schools were out of session for many months. Many people moved up to our area or totally out of the area to find housing. It pushed up our housing prices and the prices never went back down, because of the housing crush.
A cat 4 is like the end of life as you know it for a couple years.
I'm mainly worried about my pets. I can't afford to board them. My younger daughter claims she won't go into a shelter or leave without them. I sure don't want to, and yet, that's how a lot of people die - refusing to leave their pets. There are very few pet friendly shelters and we don't have cages enough for all five cats and 2 dogs. A cage for the Husky, aka the horse, would probably cost a mint.
Forgive me for not visiting my fellow bloggers yesterday (when I'm actually writing this). I'm not feeling like myself. It's part getting back on my depression meds, part getting over the bronchitis, part working extra hard at the day job, and part worrying about Ike. Or, who knows? I'm just tired.
If it has to hit, why on a weekend? We're already out of work. We won't even get a day off.
DD#2 just reminded me that she gets a hurricane for her birthday - again. Poor child. Guess I'd better buy the birthday cake early so we can take it with us to the shelter or at least have it while we're shut in.
Thursday, August 28, 2008
Thursday Thirteen: Edition 19 - Top 13 signs you're a lousy cook
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